Monday, May 8, 2017
How to reach an orgasm at the same time as your partner is a question I get asked a lot. Well, there is no hard and fast rule that you need to orgasm at the same time as your partner.
But, you cannot deny that the concept has been romanticized in movies, books and more. We have all watched hunky actors in regular movies and even in porn films grunting, groaning and moaning at the same time his woman scratches his back in wanton abandon, as she scales the heights of sexual pleasure. Now, can you honestly tell me that you have never wanted to do that to your partner?
There's no shame if you have -- after all, the sex drives is the strongest drive we have, even stronger than the drive for self-preservation if you look how recklessly men and women behave in their need to scratch the sexual itch.
The problem with simultaneous orgasms
It's a well known fact women need a lot more persuasion to reach the big O than men, who really just have to do a bit of pushing and pulling (OK, I am talking from a woman's perspective here... but ask any man and he'll tell you I'm right. In fact, the elusive "O" is known to give a serious bout of anxiety to most men as they fret over their partner faking it).
So, between a hard erection that has turned your brain to mush and the woman who lies needily below you, how do you attain this seemingly unachievable state?
The answer lies in the physiology of orgasms
It's really simple; you will need to prepare your woman better. This is where those foreplay 101 classes will come to your rescue. You need to get your lady all soppy wet and crazy with desire before you enter her. As a matter of fact, the right time for actual penetration is when she is just about ready to beg you for it.
Give those fingers and tongue a workout
Till then, explore her body with your tongue, licking and biting every one of her erogenous zones.
Don't leave out the neck, the breast, and the nipples while slowly creating a wet trail to her navel. Linger here for a while because you want the anticipation to build. You don't want her to cum... but to keep her on the brink of unattained gratification. Tease her clitoris and labia by blowing on it before you touch them with your mouth.
Lick every part of her down there before you suck on her clitoris. It would be a good time to get some finger action going. Just use one or two fingers, remember you don't want her to cum yet.
Stop every few minutes to observe her reactions, her face, expressions and how tightly she is clutching on to the bed sheet or the pillow should tell you everything you need to know. Just when she starts to push your head down to her pussy, stop for about a minute and ask her if she wants more of it.
By the time you are at round three of the act, she will be yearning to feel your hardness pumping into her. This would be a good time to take her hard but try to exercise control over your own urge to orgasm.
Let go only when you feel her muscles clenching around your penis; most women will inadvertently close their eyes at this point and even the most silent lover will inevitably moan.
And, that should be your cue to fill her up. If holding on to your ejaculation is an issue, try the Kegel exercise. Oh yeah, that one works for men too.
Tuesday, March 14, 2017
Never before have we lead a lifestyle so fast as we do nowadays. And such a lifestyle largely influences not only our physical but also mental health. That is why experts in the field of health advise us to start reducing stress in all the possible ways. One very efficient way of reducing stress is by practising yoga - a well-known and famous type of exercise, popular in every corner of the world. Yoga can improve sexual health by improve blood circulation, it does help to try out different sex position with better body flexibility. However, what do we know about yoga? Why is it so efficient? Does it help at all? These are just some of the questions we may posit, and this article is aimed at answering them all. Therefore, let us start.
Did You Know...? Yoga - All About
Yoga practice exists for more than 5000 years, and it started in ancient India. By time, it started gaining a huge popularity and today one can find yoga classes offered in almost every gym and sports centre.
The main segments of yoga practice are positions or postures. A posture includes series of movements that undoubtedly increase flexibility and strength of your body. Eminent doctors recommend yoga in the instances when a patient needs to boost physical and mental well being, and thus we can say that the health benefits of practising yoga are numerous.
Health Benefits Of Yoga Practice
Scientists, doctors and experts in the field of health have made numerous research on yoga. The results are more than positive since a large part of the research states that yoga is an effective as well as a safe way to increase physical activity, balance, and to improve mental strength.
Research has also shown that people with high blood pressure should take regular yoga classes because these classes are extremely beneficial. What is more, yoga is very helpful for people suffering from heart diseases, low back pain, depression and stress.
Professionals in the field of medicine and fitness have also agreed that practising yoga is a somewhat gentle way of promoting flexibility and strength, especially with people with arthritis. However, if you suffer from arthritis, you may well be careful since not every yoga move is suitable for you. That is why finding a good yoga teacher will help you practice yoga in the right way, but you still need to be sure to avoid any kinds of accidents and injuries.
Everyone Can Practice Yoga
Even when people realise how beneficial yoga can be, very soon they start asking questions like: „Can I practice yoga if I am not fit?“ or „Am I too old for practising yoga?“ The truth is: Everyone can practice yoga.
One is not required to have hours and hours of exercise behind his back to be able to complete yoga exercises. There are different levels of yoga classes, and all those who don't feel fit can join to some of the mixed ability yoga classes. In such classes, you only need to be able to get up from the floor and to sit down again. What is more, there are yoga exercises that are performed while sitting in a chair.
Furthermore, it is not a rare situation that seniors, people in their 70s, start with yoga exercises, and they always say they should have done it years ago. At the matter of fact, you can start with yoga classes regardless of your age. You can always find the yoga classes for your age group.
The Best Ways To Start Practising Yoga
If you have decided to start doing yoga exercises, the best way would be to either find a gym that offers yoga classes or to hire a professional yoga teacher. You can practice yoga this way only for a couple of months until you learn the positions and breathing exercises correctly. And then, it is perfectly alright if you buy yourself a DVD or just find some exercises on Youtube. However, the wrong way would be to start with DVD classes right from the beginning since there would be no one to correct your mistakes and teach you how to put your body in a specific position correctly. Hence, it may be a bit expensive in the beginning, but once you learn how to breathe properly while doing exercises, you will soon become a master of yoga practice.
Sunday, February 12, 2017
Since the dawn of civilization the culminating point of a love relationship between two lovers was described as making physical love, or in a raw language 'having sex.' Ancient and modern literature from most of the cultures has taken the concept of lovemaking to the level of ecstasy and art. Psychologists found out through analysis that sex plays most important role in a love relationship, within lovers as well as between husband and wife. State laws have allowed divorce on the basis of inability to perform sex in either of the married couple. Sexuality is an essential component of life, and the impact is undeniable, both mentally and physically. To both sexes, male and female, sexual prowess and sexual ability to have sex is associated with their inner ego. But what results when your ego is hurt at the bottom?
Erectile dysfunction is something that hits a man below the belt and leaves the man hopeless and extremely frustrated. The consequences of ED do not wait for my explanations; I know you can very well understand. May be some of you, who are reading my article, have actually gone through this phase of life, or presently going through. Until recently, erectile dysfunction was a hush-hush matter and men were ashamed of discussing their penile weakness even to their doctor. Avoiding sex night after night giving meaningless excuses, on the other hand, leads to making the wives doubtful of their husbands' fooling around. Men were leading life as if there were no solution to it; this conclusion was drawn after going through all the "operation impossible" s. I know it is a long story of pain and suffering. Hold it before you lose the last hope, there is a spark of light at the end of the tunnel...Viagra.
You have heard about it but never tried it, am I right? Are you expecting any kind of assurance from a trusted source that you will not be blind after taking Viagra pill? Let me tell you that it’s not Viagra that caused the blindness but it was the reaction and the outcome of taking Viagra without prescription and not abiding by the restrictions given on the label. Again, Sildenafil, the main ingredient of Viagra, not only gives you strong erection per pill, it actually treats Priapism, a disease related to painful erection for more than 6 hours without stimulate sexual desire. At the same time, Viagra can slowly correct mechanism of the blood flow to the penis. If you were reluctant on the issue of discussing your ED with your wife, just go and see your physician and talk to him about your physical condition, ask him if you can take Viagra and get back to normal sexual life.
I do not consider the idea of living with ED as a good one. Since the introduction of Viagra, things have changed so fast that people are no longer referring to male erection problem as impotence, but a new term has popped up for it, 'erectile dysfunction' that is more scientific and less ego-hurting. Impotence is no longer a male characteristic or image, rather a name of a disease that is treatable. The impossible was made possible only by Viagra, the pioneer sex pill to cure erectile dysfunction. Why not try it and enjoy even better sexual life?